This page was the original opening page to My first web site. It was my original "index" page. This page has grown since those early days, from a half page bio, to what it is today, and is still growing.  Additionally, in the beginning, I saw no reason to put a "warning" page.  How things have changed! And are still changing!

In the beginnings of this site I was interested, only, in making it a bio and ad.  As time went on I realized that in order to write about me, I needed to write about all the things that make up who I am.  My life is so "pistachio", that sometimes I think that when I really want to get kinky I need to go vanilla!

My feeling is that there are numerous web sites that have a lot of great information. And a lot of great information at numerous web sites. But with the people that I know and the things that I've experienced, I knew that I could make this into a web site that contained just about all the information you would ever need, on the subject of What It Is That We Do.

Below you will find a part of the original bio, with some additions, since the only thing constant is change.  But be sure and visit the other pages on this site for great information, resources, and other web sites I'm comfortable enough with to recommend.

I was born in 1959. I used to be extremely muscular.  In fact, I won a National Powerlifting Championship in 1986.  But it seems that my mid-life has caught up to my mid-section. I'm about 285 pounds, 5 feet 9 inches, with salt and pepper hair and brown eyes. I have a few tattoos and a couple of hole-scars from where piercings used to be.

I used to make a lot of my own dungeon furniture, including a St. Andrews cross, a sub chair, 2 spanking benches, and numerous other toys.  MMost of it is in storage now, because I no longer have room for my own dungeon, at this time.  Maybe later.

I am a single tail Master, once given the title of , "Expert" with both the 3 foot and the 4 foot signal whip.  I have given demonstrations and presentations on signal whips, dungeon monitoring and other useful topics, nationally. I don't have a video, and this is not a pay site, because I believe in free sharing of information with the BDSM community. If your group would be interested in having me do one of these presentations, feel free to contact me.

I was introduced to the scene while in the military. I was stationed at Homestead AFB in Florida, during the pre-Hurricane Andrew days, in the late '70s. I met a lady who had just found BDSM and we experimented.

I didn't know that there were other people like us, so I kept my interests to myself until my first marriage.

My first wife and I also experimented mixing drugs and sex, and after the drugs started affecting the sex, we needed much more intense things just to feel the sex.

When I stopped doing the drugs I thought I didn't need BDSM any more, but early in my recovery I met a girl who was also interested in BDSM. She and I experimented a lot, and after 2 years of switching I found what I wanted and have been Dominant ever since. That was in 1985.

In that time I've had a number of submissives, one other slave, and a few vanilla relationships. When My third wife left Me, one of the last things she said was, "Now you can go back to doing those disgusting things that you like to do!"

And I did.

Although I had been involved with other non-organized SM groups, My first experience with an SM organization was with the Triangle Munch Group. I met lots of like-minded people in a strictly vanilla atmosphere. While there, I was introduced to Le Chevalier Malfait. He told Me about TALON (the Triad Area Leather Oriented Network). A short time later, while discussing play socials and BDSM groups, Malfait and I came up with the idea for SSCN, (the Safe, Sane, Consensual Network, pronounced,"scene"). And up until recently, I've been actively involved in organized SM-leather-fetish groups ever since.  My wife and I had a baby girl in 2009, so going to organized fetish groups and meetings has taken a back seat for the time being; although we still play in private.

I was so involved back then, that in 2000 I received a Merlin Award for Leather/Community Outreach.

After coming to Texas I joined a few different groups. For a while I was the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) liaison for one, The DM Supervisor for another, and in 2001 and 2002 I was on the Election Committee for another.

During My first year in Texas I also became an active member of an Austin area Dominant's group. Soon after joining that group I became their Chief Security Officer and DM Captain and a mentor in the Austin Mentors Program.

Part of My responsibilities as the SAADE DM Captain had been setting up programs such as the DM Certification class. This class, which went over DM training and First Aid once a year, also helds three practicums throughout the year. Attendees at the various practicums were additionally certified through the American Heart Association in First Aid, CPR and AED (defibrillators).

Other responsibilities have included starting a "Train the Trainers" program, in which I would help other groups set up their own DM Certification Program, an "Escort Service" to walk people that require escorts to their cars after munches, parties and other events; and to form an all around "security team" to help out wherever the need exists, both inside and outside of the group.

I am currently living with a collared slave. Although I originally came to Texas for a relationship with a submissive which didn't work out, it appears that I have found someone better, who did.

t is My 24/7 wife and live-in slave.

What I wanted in an alpha slave included, but was not limited to, an intelligent, witty, and fun-loving individual who likes to sit by My feet, sleep with her head on My shoulder, and keep My glass full of Coke - with no ice. I like My bed made each morning. I was looking for that last call of the night -- somebody who wants to spend the last few moments of her day on the phone saying goodnight (or rolling over to tell Me).

she enjoys the feeling of a single tail dancing through her hair and stinging her skin, and the taste of a cold sharp knife floating across her body. she enjoys leather and sports, among other things, and appreciates chivalry.

Now we are looking for a beta slave. Ideally what I would like from a beta slave is someone to visit with Uus on occasion, and Me, alone, at other times, understanding that My! t is My primary partner. Someone who would be willing to help take some of the load off My! t. A person who can perform domestic chores at times. Someone who could possibly do some cooking or cleaning. At times s/he would be asked to take care of My needs and be an additional partner in the bedroom. It would help if the person also likes edge play and is comfortable at level six or seven of the 9 Levels of submission, but it's not a requirement.

If you'd like to know more about what it is that we do, there are plenty of wonderful reference sources on this web site.

I hope you enjoy your visit here.

© 2008 SirBamm!